The word “fault” was
bandied about in a recent family argument. “It isn’t my fault!” “It’s your
fault!”
Part way through the heated discussion (OK, yelling match),
I thought I made a good point about not assigning blame
at all; to consider that fault is not the issue. Point is, the situation exists
– what are we going to do about it?
But of course, since the shrieking outweighed any common
sense remark, my observation fell on the proverbial deaf ears. You can’t hear
anything while you’re shouting.
My weak compromise (I was willing at least to take equal “blame”)
was, “Even California has a ‘No Fault’ law!” And we
know that California’s government loves to blame everyone except itself for its
blown-out financial state. I thought that was a credible comment.